Call in your soulmate, and build something that lasts.
Dating Coach for Men · Bay Area & Online
It starts well. Then you pull back, or it slowly fades, or you end up with someone who isn't right again.
No one ever showed you how to do this differently. I work with you as the woman in the room, telling you what she feels on the other side, so you can stay open when it matters.
We start where you are.
Private, one-to-one coaching with ChiChi.
Where you start
You want to call in your soulmate, and something keeps getting in the way.
You can't see the pattern. You know something keeps going wrong, but you can't name it.
It fades right when it starts to matter. Things start well, then you pull back or go quiet.
You end up in the same place. A different woman, the same ending. Or the apps wear you out, and nothing turns into something real.
Dates feel like a performance. You're not sure the real you is coming through.
Most men I work with have never worked with a coach before. They're just ready to do something about it.
Where you land
You see your pattern clearly. You know what's happening when things start to fade, and why.
You stay in it when it gets real. You stop pulling back or going quiet right when it starts to matter.
You choose differently. You notice sooner when someone isn't right, and you stop ending up in the same place.
You show up as yourself. Dates feel less like a performance. You have the confidence to let the right woman see who you are.
We'll talk through how we get there on our call. I meet you where you are, and you don't need any experience with coaching or therapy.
"This was my first experience with coaching, and it was a very positive one. … More open to love. Several potential romances emerged since the first session."
- M.H.
"ChiChi has been an honest person who guided me into states of mind that better allowed me to see the truth of my actions and beliefs. She employs exercises and methods that are different than anything else I have experienced in therapy."
- Q.J.
"Her exceptional ability to actively listen made me feel truly heard and understood."
- J.K.
From men I've coached
For five years, I've worked with the women you're hoping to meet. Here's what the men I've coached say.